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Saturday, October 5, 2024

Thoughts on My Old Ass

    In New York City, I went to go see My Old Ass, a 2024 film written and directed by Megan Park (The Fallout), co-produced by Margot Robbie, and starring Maisy Stella and Aubrey Plaza as the 18-year old and 39-year old versions of the same character, Elliott, communicating across time periods.

    18-year old Elliott (Stella) is spending her summer at her family's cranberry farm before she heads off to college at the University of Toronto. She is gay, hooks up with a local girl, and hangs out with her friends, operating a motorboat across the lake. Rather than spend her birthday with her family, she goes camping with her friends, and they take 'shrooms. While one friend is dancing about and other passes out, Elliott is joined by her 39-year old self (Plaza), seemingly conjured up as a hallucination. Stella and Plaza play really well off each other, with Stella as the bright-eyed Gen Z kid in disbelief and Plaza as the elder millennial who has lived life enough to be much wiser. They bond with each other, and when the younger Elliott wants some life-changing advice, aside from being told to value her family more, the older Elliott tells her to stay away from a guy named Chad. 

    She disappears with the end of the drug trip, and the next day, while out skinny-dipping in the lake, the younger Elliott happens to meet a teenage boy who is working a summer job on the farm, and his name is Chad. Elliott quickly swims away, then finds in her cell phone that older Elliott left her phone number under the contact 'My Old Ass." Then, they are able to call and text across time periods, and the movie doesn't bother to explain how this happens outside of the drug trip, to just go with it. Older Elliott is trying not to give her younger self too much information about the future, not wanting to create any weird butterfly effects or time shifts, but despite trying to heed her advice, younger Elliott keeps running into Chad, getting to know him, and being attracted to him despite her better judgement. 

    The movie gets really interesting when it mixes both a coming-of-age story about a young queer girl being confused about being attracted to a boy, as well as wanting to both leave the farm life behind and still hold onto her familial warmth and childhood, a confusing mix of growing up and being 18. And without giving too much away, I related a lot to the older Elliott, being her age, and the mix of wanting to give advice to her younger self, to protect her from pain, while understanding that she needs to take risks and embrace the unknown in order to grow and mature more.

    Despite the silly title, it's a really good movie, anchored by the performances of Stella and Plaza. It has some really touching moments between Elliott and her family, particularly a scene with her and her mother (Maria Dizzia) that is also about change and letting go, and I did nearly tear up at times towards the end. Stella has this chill, yet open expression to her that allows her to take in insights from others, and Plaza's deadpan delivery gives blunt truths about how her life may not go along her expectations, without being cruel about it. They play off of each other really well, and it makes the film very enjoyable to watch.

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